Waitress confronts a slacker coworker Dana, standing up for herself after spending months covering her tables by refusing to pick up her slack: 'I don't even feel bad about it'

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  • Female server standing up for herself on shift.
  • I finally told my coworker I've been covering for her for almost a year and I don't even feel bad about how it went
  • There's this woman at work, let's call her Dana. Sweet person, genuinely, but she has a habit of disappearing for like 20-30 mins and leaving her section completely unattended.
  • I work in a restaurant so that's kind of a big deal. For months I just quietly picked up the slack because I didn't want drama and I felt bad for her, she mentioned going through a rough patch at home.
  • But last week she did it again during the busiest part of our shift and I got chewed out by the manager in front of everyone because her tables were a mess. That was kind of my breaking point.
  • Woman placing an order for customers at a restaurant.
  • I pulled her aside after our shift and told her straight up that I've been covering her disappearing acts since basically forever and that I'm done doing it. I wasn't mean about it but I wasn't soft
  • either. She got teary and defensive and said she didn't ask me to cover for her which like... ok fair but also what was I supposed to do, let the whole section fall apart?
  • She's barely talked to me since and part of me feels guilty but a bigger part of me doesn't. I've been trying to get my life together lately, eating better,
  • finally got some money saved on the side, little things but they add up and I just dont have the emotional bandwidth to carry other peoples weight at work anymore.
  • Idk. Just needed to say it out loud somewhere.
  • mayathinks ngl holding it in for almost a year first?? you have the patience of a saint tbh lmao
  • Brilliant-Ring-76 Wooo! Go you! Don't feel bad, some people need a push to better themselves. And sometimes it comes like this, where an enabling force. disperses and forces them to buck-up.
  • AnlMayonnaise Isn't it funny how the people who should be thanking you are always the ones who blame you instead? Feeling anger as a reaction to shame is a serious character flaw, but unfortunately very common.
  • skypira You did the right thing.
  • cardamomgrrl I think... if I had started doing it without mention, I'd just have stopped doing it without mention and let the chips fall where they may
  • Local_business_disco You've been covering her section for 20-30 minutes at a time for an entire year and she's never asked you to do that? So why are you just continuing to do it? Is she returning to finish up those tables and then take the tip? Or are you taking over her entire section and making money off of it? If that's the case, then she wouldn't be making any money and this wouldn't have gone on for a year. I can't imagine any manager allowing you to take all the tables for both sections s

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